Are you a liar? Oh, you're not? Wait, are you lying?
I guess my point is that sometimes it's hard to tell. And that's especially true because there are certain phrases out there which have become synonymous with lies. Any good liar knows these are words to avoid if you want to be believed. Accordingly, only really bad liars even attempt to use the following phrases on this list -- dishonest people who are oblivious to the fact that the whole world knows these are the tell-tale phrases of a liar.
For example, "My dog ate my herpes." Wait, did I get that right?
There's one big exception though. Sometimes, and I just mean sometimes, these phrases are true. Sometimes honest people say the same things ruined by the liars before them, and that's a drag, because honest people don't like the comparison.
So here they are: five phrases everyone assumes are lies, that can totally be true. Sometimes.
5"I'm Not an Alcoholic -- I Don't Drink That Much"
There wasn't a lot of drinking in my house growing up. We had a well-stocked liquor bar that was just about never touched. In my first 18 years, I saw beer in our fridge one time. I, on the other hand, enjoy a nice alcoholic beverage. Or a mean alcoholic beverage. Actually, the drink's temperament is not the issue. I like the liquids with alcohol in them, is what I'm saying.
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Perhaps I should be more specific.
Nevertheless, I don't think I'm an alcoholic, and I think medical science would agree. I don't drink every day, and when I do drink, it's rarely to the point of getting drunk. I also drink less than the majority of my friends. For my money, that puts the kibosh on a drinking problem, but drinking "too much" is a very flexible and poorly-defined term, and that's the interesting thing. Because it's flexible, people with drinking problems will hide behind it and say, "I don't have a problem because I don't drink that much." But at the same time, because of that flexibility, those who simply drink less (LIKE MY MOM) will look at people who drink more than they do and think they're drinking "too much."
It doesn't help that alcoholism is hard to define, especially when one of the categories on this list of symptoms is "loved ones worry." Though I don't fit any of the other items on that list, or on this WebMd list. Again, the concern of a loved one (my mom) is the only entry on some lists of alcohol abuse symptoms that applies to me.
Also, apparently all our hangnails are cancer.
So even though tons of people with drinking problems hide behind the the old "I don't drink that much," what else is an honest person supposed to say when faced with this incorrect accusation?
4"I'm Not Fat, I'm Just ..."
This has become a cliche. The fat person's disingenuous lament. But y'know what? There are things that can make you look fat (or be fat) aside from eating oodles of donuts. And I'm not just talking about thyroid problems or wide hip bones.
Wanna hear a horrible story? OK! I went to college with this girl who I always remembered as being kind of heavy. Not very heavy; just a bit plump. Why do I have that memory? Well, she had a really round face. Like, super round. Like, incredibly round.
Here is a picture of her smiling.
Anyway, here's something funny about that girl, and when I say funny, I mean horribly sad and not funny at all. She had to drop out of school due to anorexia. Yep, she was starving herself to death to be thinner, and a jackass like me remembered her as chunky because she had a round face. But hey, I was just a kid, right?
Nope. Fast-forward ten years later, and I was working a new job with a woman who had very high, prominent cheekbones and a small but well-defined chin. Taking those traits together meant she had a very skinny face. Anyway, one day I was walking down the hall behind a women who was easily 50 pounds overweight, and I had no idea who it was. Until she turned around. Yep. Skinny head on a large body.
What's my point? Well, my first point is that I'm an idiot. Moving on, my next point is apparently I really check out women's faces and don't really look too hard at their bodies (and boy do people accuse me of lying when I say that). But my main point is that there are factors that can change how we perceive someone's weight, and not everyone who says "I'm not fat, I'm big boned," or whatever, is lying.