I Was On MTV's The Real World: It Was Not Like You Think

It turns out that making sure all of the ingredients for a successful reality show are in place (to achieve the exact right amount of shirtless yelling) usually doesn't require scripted fakery -- it's just a matter of being very, very careful about who they cast. They are, after all, trying to cast certain "parts" (the Nice Girl, the Troublemaker, the Black Guy).

Pat was designated as his season's "Bad Boy." "There was a casting call at the bar, and me and my buddy were just like, 'Hey, wouldn't it be funny if one of us were picked?'" he says. "I think I had a dirty white stained t-shirt on, nothing cool." They filled out a questionnaire in line, then went inside. "There were a bunch of casting directors sitting people down in groups of ten, asking questions like 'Describe yourself in one word,'" he says. People clearly knew what the producers were looking for -- "Everyone was like 'Crazy! I'm crazy! I'm wild, you never know what I'm going to do!'" -- but just like your English teacher told you, it's all about showing and not telling. Pat finally exploded in eye-rolling frustration at one timid girl who described herself as "Um, aggressive, I guess?" He chided her, "'What do you mean 'aggressive'?! If you were aggressive, you would be aggressive."

He thinks that caught the eye of the producers, who undoubtedly witnessed this slightly unnecessary confrontation and saw dollar signs. The chosen few proceeded to the next stage, where a battery of tests gave the impression they'd be trusting the cast with state secrets. "We go in the back and there's like a textbook of questions," he says. "One of them was 'List all your family members,' and I have a ton of those. They wanted to know, 'What's your relationship like with your mother, your stepmother, what was middle school like.' It was the most intimate thing -- I swear, the CIA doesn't have as much information as they do."

Pat was also required to take an IQ test ("like the MTV SATs, all these math questions") and be evaluated off-camera by a psychologist. This is all to make sure they're getting a cast with just the right amount of personality disorder. The psychologist is there "to make sure you won't be violent," he says. "If you do get violent, you're off the show." As for the rest of the probing questions, one casting official explains, "You want to see how far people will go in terms of opening up -- how much they will tell you about the guy they have a crush on or their confusing relationship with their father. You need people who are open, enigmatic, and unpredictable."

Just not unpredictable enough to start spontaneously raining fists down upon another cast member, although Pat points out that if someone does, "that's always what they show in the trailer." That might sound like a contradiction, but it's kind of like how NASCAR doesn't want crashes and certainly doesn't want drivers getting hurt ... but everyone involved knows a certain percentage of the audience is only watching for the fireworks.

As you can guess, MTV isn't about to let things be that spontaneous. It may not be scripted, but it's tightly controlled, to the point that the first day feels like checking in to prison. When Pat arrived in Cancun, "they took me to a separate hotel," and then, "they went through all of my stuff," mostly to ensure he wasn't packing any contraband sponsorship. "They took away like two pieces of clothing because it had brands on it, they said, 'We'll give this back to you at the end.'"

In other aspects, the search was a little more lax. "They told me, 'Bring all your stuff down here, we wanna make sure you don't have any illegal drugs or anything' but they didn't come into my room, so if I had illegal drugs, I would have just left them in my room." At this point, of course, their psychologists had presumably calculated exactly how likely he was to do drugs and whether he'd be smart enough to hide them.

Pat's "arrival" at the airport actually took place the next day (they had him go stand off in the corner and then walk out into the view of the camera, as if he'd just stepped off the plane). That's the sort of fill-in-the-gaps shots producers do have the housemates stage from time to time (other "dramatically reenacted" events recalled by cast members include having everyone pretend to shut off the lights and go to bed just so they can get it on tape). They've also been known to hire actors as background characters to help push the plot along. In one instance, during the filming of the New York season, they paid a man to follow a female cast member and hit on her. This might be the only time getting paid to do something made it less creepy.

This is one of the keys to the reality show format -- sticking the cast in front of a camera for hours and hours, wearing them down until they get material that can be inserted to juice up conflict down the line. "You know how you'll see on a reality show and two girls are in a fight and it'll cut to 'Clarissa is such a bitch lately'? What they do is, every single week, they have an interview, and the interviews would last, honest to God, four hours," Pat says. On TV, it appears to be the cast member alone talking to the camera, but in reality there are people just out of sight, asking questions and encouraging the cast member to open up. "It was almost like therapy, because they'll constantly ask 'Well how did you feel about that?' They didn't script things, but ... they would say 'You know, I can see where you're coming from, you were totally right to be mad.'"

Pat says he saw exactly what they were doing, when they tried to turn a total non-fight into a fight. "One time I got a little too drunk and hurt my roommate's feelings, and he's still one of my best friends to this day, so I got really apologetic and he was like 'Don't worry, it's fine.' It was nothing, it was a two-second thing. So then in my interview they would say 'Don't you think he was being over-sensitive?' and I was like 'No, not really.' And then in his interview they would say, 'Don't you think he was over-the-line?' and he was like 'No, not really.'"

Keep in mind that the Real World cast members are paid $300 a week. That may sound like plenty of money when you don't have to pay rent, but cast members likely have expenses back home if they don't want to return to find all their stuff in boxes on the curb, and rent was the only thing they didn't have to pay. "It was our only source of income, and it wasn't a lot of money," Pat says. "And we had to buy our own food, too. Aside from our living accommodations and our hookups for drinks in the club, we had to pay for everything." If they forgot to tell the producers they're running down to the gas station a couple times, they were looking at a dicey month, and MTV is absolutely petty enough to charge them for long-distance calls if their cells get shut off.

There is, obviously, no privacy, which might sound fine when they sign up for it, but doesn't really hit home until they're trying to find somewhere, anywhere, where someone won't hear them masturbate. They were mic'd while they slept, ate, and even while they shit. But there were no cameras in the bathroom, at least, Pat remembers, "so you could have your alone time there."

Eventually, Pat and his castmates found ways to converse in private. "One of the things you can do is, the mics can't go in the water and you're on the beach. So if we wanted to talk privately about something, you can do two things: One, you can tell them 'Hey we wanna go out to the ocean' and go talk out in the water, or two, and this is much more blatant, you could get in the pool and huddle together and whisper."

But even in the pool, there were boom mics hovering, and if they tried to edge away from them, they just followed, like the lamest horror movie monster ever.

Pat had no complaints on that scale, saying that most of the editing is about making stories neater -- in one episode a cast member (Derek) has his heart broken by an ex, only to meet a new, much better dude at the end of the same episode. In reality, those two events happened several weeks apart. This is why cast members can't change their appearance mid-season. No new facial hair, piercings, anything -- they want to be able to pull video from a month ago and seamlessly piece it in to look like it happened that morning. "They would control our haircuts, we weren't allowed to get new haircuts or tattoos. I tried to grow a mustache as a joke and they said 'You have to shave it.'"

This was, as the season went on, their only form of rebellion. "One time Joey got really mad that they fined him for breaking a rule, and he actually had the balls to run away from the house. No one knew where Joey was. He comes back with this brand new tattoo on his wrist that says, 'Fuck MTV.'"

Immortalized for only the keenest eyes to see ("There were a few times they blurred it out, but it was so small you couldn't really see it," Pat says) was a poignant symbol of a longstanding tradition among middle-class youth: The smallest possible "fuck you" to the very establishment to which they'd sold themselves. Anthropologists of the future will be thrilled.

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