When that one kid back in high school told us that he'd heard that you could get pregnant from blow jobs or that the chlorine in hot tubs means you can't catch STDs, we were smart enough to call bullshit. But it turns out that we probably shouldn't have been so quick to laugh and tell him what a virgin he was, because some of those ridiculous sex myths turned out to be terrifyingly close to the truth. For example ...
6Yes, the Dude Can Break His Penis (You Can Even Hear it Snap!)
"See how that lady is violently bouncing up and down on that guy's boner in this porn we're watching together for some reason? You need to be careful doing that -- if she lands wrong, she can absolutely break his penis. I totally know a guy that happened to! They had to put his dick in a little cast! I signed it!"
"It was worse than when my pizza guy got burns delivering an 'extra-large sausage.'"
Come on! That can't be true, right? It's not like a boner has an actual bone in it.
No, but there are two cylinders of tissue that become rigid during an erection, and if she lands on it wrong, it can break, with "an audible cracking sound."
And strangely, this is more likely to happen when a man is cheating, according to University of Maryland Medical Center researcher Dr. Andrew Kramer, who studies penile fractures (and incidentally has by far the worst job in the world). Kramer's research shows that when a man is having an affair, he's more likely to end up with a sharp 90 degree bend in his Mini-Me. He reasoned that illicit sex is more likely to happen in unusual ways or places -- the guy is trying to impress her, after all -- and it's awkward positions and "acrobatic" sex that create the most danger to his brittle love stick.
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"So did you want me to straighten it back out or break it again and give you the Lightning Bolt Special?"
Incidentally, if this ever happens to you or someone you love, yes, you need to seek medical attention immediately. Fixing a break probably requires surgery. If you're embarrassed, just emphasize to the doctor how acrobatic the sex was.
5You Can Totally Get Your Junk Stuck Together During Sex
"I heard from a friend of a friend about this guy who was banging some married chick. The husband came home without warning, and the dude tried to pull out and run away, but he couldn't. He was stuck. Inside her."
"And don't think I didn't notice the WD-40 on your pants, too!"
It sounds like the dumbest of the sex horror urban legends, but sometimes even the dumbest stories have a kernel of truth to them. In this case, it's a rarely documented but not unknown phenomenon called penis captivus. You don't need to be fluent in Latin to guess what that means. For instance, doctors at a British hospital reported a young couple being brought in via ambulance and carried into the emergency room on a single stretcher, as they were stuck together like conjoined twins joined at the genitals. Once inside, they were presumably pried apart with a crowbar, making a kind of cork popping sound when they disengaged.
... goes your weasel.
Legends of people getting their dirty bits stuck inside each other have persisted for centuries, and it was long said that it happened when people did the nasty with someone they shouldn't, like another man's wife. Modern medicine dismissed the idea for a long time, chalking it up to a hilarious scary story told to keep people from cheating on their spouses.
But medical science is always trying to discover new horrors for you to have nightmares about, and now experts say all it takes is for the female's southern regions to clench in such a way as to turn a vagina into a kind of Chinese finger trap. If you would like an illustration, go to YouTube and browse the many, many videos of it happening to dogs:
"Dude, c'mon on. Little privacy?"
Or don't. There are better uses of your time. Anyway, humans aren't dogs, and when this happens to us, it's usually only for a few seconds, and then everyone has a good laugh about it. Usually.